With the emotional pain that comes from offenses, our hearts can cry out for justice, requiring payment for the debt!  But, unforgiveness is destructive to us and a hard task master. Regardless of the scale of the offense, we need the ability to forgive because God requires it of us. Forgiveness doesn’t always come easily, but when we understand what forgiveness is NOT, it makes choosing to forgive easier. so that we can choose to remember the offense no longer.